How to deal with Exam Stress | Help your child

I always say my daughter is an extension of me. She is highly emotional, too hard on herself and crumbles over small things. I used to cry after a bad exam,  not even knowing what the results would be. I would be kicking myself and stressing over things I couldn’t change. Exam stress is very real. Now I have to do what my mother used to do for me. Calm my daughter down and remind her that ‘IT’S JUST AN EXAM’.  Here are simple ways you can help you on how to deal with exam stress.

1. GOOD NUTRITION

Food is vitally important during revision. We start off each day with a  green smoothie. Too much sugar, coffee and other junk can cause unproductive highs, followed by even worse lows. Fill the cupboards with fruit and veg, maybe stop stocking the fridge with easily obtainable chocolate and other sugar highs. Cut down on the amount of fizzy drink in the house and encourage them to drink plenty of water. There’s no need to go on full lock down on snacks, but if the cupboards and fridge aren’t as inviting then they’re less likely to be stuck in a daily sugar slump.

2. EXERCISE

It’s no secret that I’m an exercise freak. Physical exercise releases endorphins – the body’s natural mood lifter. This helps to clear their mind and take them out of the exam pressure cooker. You can play a vital role in encouraging and making exercise possible. For example going to gym with them riding a bike or just going for a walk around the block. Help them put together a study schedule that includes regular breaks for exercise and encourage them to maintain attendance at sporting clubs or groups.

 

3. OPEN COMMUNICATION

Encourage your children to talk, when ready, about exam nerves. How are they feeling? What pressure are they putting on themselves to deliver certain results? Emphasise that such feelings are completely normal and to be expected. Remind them of their hard work to date to build confidence and suggest they shouldn’t sweat small stuff. Chores can be ‘forgotten’, exams are more important.

4. FINDING THE PERFECT STUDY PLACE

Somewhere quiet, organised, and with minimal distractions.Help them create a study plan, and break their goals into small chunks, with clear, achievable goals. Create a study timetable together, which includes breaks and times to relax and socialise. When they are hitting the wall, take them out of the house and let them study at the park.

5. USE A HOBBY TO DISTRESS

My daughter discovered knitting. What a blessing this has been in our lives. It keeps her calm and we find that she can concentrate better after taking a knitting break. Sometimes taking that hour off actually refreshes them, and focus is maximised this way. They need to find their own coping mechanisms because we are not always going to be there as parents.

How to deal with exam stress | Knitting
Knitting before the exam
24 comments
  1. When I had to face the exams I always studied in the morning and then in the afternoon I rested doing something else and above all the night before the exam I did nothing, pure mental relaxation!

  2. Yep I’d go along with all of these. I have a house full of teens doing exams right now.

    1. Aargh, goodluck mama. I have 1 teen and I’m barely surviving, lol.

  3. Now this is something all parents need to hear! I remember getting stressed over pretty much every exam in school and I wish I had someone to help me through it and these tips are amazing!

    1. That was me. Like I was a nervous wreck throughout my entire life. I suppose now I understand better what my daughter is going through.

  4. These are great tips! Always important to remember to take care of yourself when you are stressed and/or overwhelmed! I especially like doing a hobby when I am overwhelmed. I like to crochet or play video games. 🙂

    1. Oh, you crotchet as well. It really does wonders.

  5. My kids just had state tests. I have yet to deal with exams for older kids yet, but I imagine it can be very stressful. Good tips to help ease their stress.

  6. I haven’t had to deal with exams for older kids yet. I can’t imagine how stressful it can be. Good tips to help ease their stress.

    1. Lucky you. But you can always refer back when the time comes.

  7. Nutrition is one of the most important things during exams. Studying is a proper workout for our brains.

  8. YES! Really great list of ways to de-stress! As a student, I would always keep going without a break, but I started to notice that if I took a small break in studying, I’d come back refreshed and stronger.

  9. These are some really helpful tips on how to help our children when it comes to exam stress! It is such an anxious time.

  10. Very lovely tips! Having a dedicated study space is very necessary. I have my office upstairs with my desk in front of the window for lots of natural light.

  11. love this topic! every single one of them is such an important guide. Thanks so much for sharing

  12. I love this topic, always gives me a little bit of sense what I need to do and be prepared in helping my kids. Thanks!

  13. We’re a long way from exams in my household, but these tips are great for anyone with stress! Thanks for sharing!

    1. They will come in handy at the time. Pleasure mama

  14. i love all these tips! good nutrition is the cornerstone of most successes!

  15. Using a hobby as a way to de-stress and decompress is an amazing idea! Even when your kids should be spending a lot of time studying, they definitely need a good break so they don’t burn out!

    -Jennifer
    https://maunelegacy.com

  16. I totally agree with this. Exams can truly be stressful for our kids and thus, it is very important that we don’t have to add it. Instead, we should help and support them. No need to add more pressure.

    My mom always emphasized the importance of food and a good place to study when reviewing for exams.

  17. These are some great tips. Exams can be a really stressful time for children of any age.

  18. Some fantastic tips here. I’ll share this post with my neices. Thank you x

  19. These are such great tips I’m definitely going to use them for my baby when he gets that age!

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